How to work in the space of not-knowing

When you listen to other people, you work in the space of not-knowing, even if you don’t realise it.  Whether you’re a coach, leader, manager, teacher, parent, friend, sibling, or part of any other relationship, professional or personal, you will spend some time listening. Some of us more than others. It is this skill of … Read more

Challenging with compassion

I bet you have received feedback or had your thinking challenged at some point in your life. How did it make you feel? I’ve felt shame, defensiveness and fear through to feeling safe, love, and empathy. Some feedback has motivated me to do better and some that’s left me feeling despondent. I know which I … Read more

Who’s in your square squad?

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My daughter is going through a tough time. She’s being bullied at school by a ‘friend’. Over the last few months, we’ve had talks about how people treat one another, what it means to be yourself and how we build trust in a relationship (and what happens when that trust gets broken). The most recent … Read more

Do you need to rewrite your story?

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“Are you going to let this story run your life or are you going to rewrite it?” The words barely registered before the answer came into my mind. “I’m going to rewrite my story” I said.    Humans are natural storytellers, we have been since we first started communicating with each other. Stories are how … Read more